Science proves while Rudeness and Arrogance may seem like poor rearing, it is actually an Effective Play for Control Over You. đ˛AND IT WORKS !! đ¤ Research states, âIn all cases, the participants thought the rude people were more powerfulâŚand âleader-like.â Your subconscious, however, knowsââŚsuch interactions are an attack on a part of our identityâ it conveys âyouâre not important enough to be treated better, he says â âyouâre not really a legitimate person.â
Donât think with time you can navigate the relationship so they are kinder in the way they communicate. Rudeness and Arrogance are not a matter of being unkind.Â
The only use for this type of word and attitude choice (whether ingrained by rearing and applied to every person they know, or chosen in specific circumstances) is for covert influence of anotherâs subconscious. If others have indicated they recognize it also, donât dismiss it lightly. Instead, check for other possible tell signs of this type of covert emotional control in the potential relationship.
Especially if otherâs describe them ( from past dealings) as having âgotten betterâ; perhaps theyâve simply learned when and how to keep their mouth shut so the âplayâ is less apparent. Know itâs not just you.Â
âPrevious research consistently showed that being a target of or even just witnessing rude behaviors, leads to numerous negative outcomes, including an increase in negative affect, disruption of cognitive processing, and decreased cognitive performance âÂ
If youâre a party to a transaction with someone who is rude or arrogant, ensure you employ a professional negotiator. They will help you pick up on nuances that can not only protect you but be to your advantage. Itâs pure neurological science.
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L.Alexia Clemens, Broker of White Brick Real Estate
Certified Negotiations Expert (CNE) & Real Estate Collaboration Specialist- Divorce ( RCS-D)
